Before you go
Confirm the courthouse, the part, the room and the appearance method — parts have handled matters both in person and virtually in recent years, and the answer differs by judge. Bring photo ID, your court papers, three copies of any document you want the judge to see, and the index number written somewhere you can read it aloud.
The calendar call
A clerk or judge reads through the day's cases. When your name or index number is called, answer clearly and state who you are. If you need time to retain counsel or to prepare, say so then — that is the moment to request an adjournment, not later in the afternoon. Being absent at the call can produce a default or dismissal.
The hallway
In many parts, the other side's attorney will want to talk before the case is heard. That conversation is where most matters resolve. Listen, take notes, and do not sign anything you have not read and understood. You are always entitled to say you need time, or to ask the judge to review a proposed stipulation with you.
In front of the judge
Be brief and factual. Address the court as 'Your Honor,' do not interrupt the other side, and answer the question asked. Have the document you are relying on in your hand. If the court orders something, write down exactly what and by when before you leave the room.